Welcome family + friends

We have created this site as a way to provide a centralized hub for updates for our upcoming IVF journey. We so appreciate everyone's support and interest in what is to come but can I be honest with you? It's exhausting to give the same schpeel over and over again :) 

So now I'm a blogger... hey guysssss, so many of you have you been asking about my skincare routine/ivf protocol, so thought I'd share! But seriously - this is really meant to remove some emotional and cognitive burden from me. Don't get it twisted - I do love your thoughtful texts and general support, so please keep that coming. A quick explanation of what this site is and isn't outlined below. 

What this is: A place to come when you have the urge to ask me "what's next? what does egg retrieval mean? how many embryos did you get? when are you going to Denver again?" The nitty gritty details that I'm sure no one is asking for, but if you're curious - this is the place. A way for me to log all my crazy hormonal thoughts that hopefully one day I can say, "hey child - this is what it took to bring you into this world. you better believe I can take you out of it!"

What this isn't: Cute DIYs or the new hottest fashions, an excuse to not ask me "how are you doing?," nor a live stream of everything that is happening.

So read ahead. Or don't. Just know that I fully reserve the right to say "check the blog" if you ask me a question I've answered here. 

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